Like I said last week, Sara and I have almost been doing this for 10 years. In those 10 years, there have been countless times when we’ve nearly posted the same recipe the same week or when we’ve posted something and then one of us has texted the other something like, “So remember when I posted almost exactly that same thing 2 years ago?” At the same time, there are some glaring absences in our recipe index. Most noticeably, these absences have been macaroni and cheese and red velvet cake recipes. This is not a red velvet cake recipe. (That’s a whole other post, like, Red Velvet Cake, what are you and what are you trying to be?? Are you chocolate? Are you just red dye? Can I just eat the cream cheese frosting??) This is a recipe for Homemade Stovetop Macaroni and Cheese and we’ve been seeing a lot of each other lately…I guess you could say we’re pretty serious.
the macaroni & Cheese challenge
Our biggest hesitation with posting a macaroni and cheese recipe is that we just did not have one that we liked; both of us had incredibly high standards for what a homemade mac and cheese recipe should be and while I don’t know exactly what Sara’s list of standards looked like, I know hers is similar to mine, which included: doesn’t use processed or American cheese, is smooth and creamy, has actual cheese flavor (if I’m eating a week’s worth of calories all at once, it had better taste like cheese), isn’t gritty, and isn’t baked.
I know the baked mac and cheese thing (and the subsequent accompanying bread crumb topping), like hating red velvet cake, is an abomination in the South…I’ll turn in my honorary Southern girl immediately. But my thing with baked mac and cheese is that it contributes to a lot of the issues that I tend to have with homemade mac and cheese–grittiness, rubbery-ness, and lack of cheese flavor. This is usually remedied by using American or processed cheese, which is in violation of another of my rules. Do you see why this took me ten years? Do you feel like it’s taking you ten years for me to get to the recipe? Like in this video? (Disclaimer: there’s a little PG language at the very end, so if you’re concerned or have littles around, you might want to hit mute during the last 3 seconds or so).
I’m almost there. I promise. Here, look at this picture. It will keep us all going on this journey together.

tips & tricks for creamy mac & cheese
One tip I unknowingly stumbled into was using the starchy pasta water to thin out the sauce instead of using milk. I know. Your reaction to this information is similar to his. But I started researching it and apparently it is a thing–it helps give homemade mac and cheese that silky, smooth, luxurious texture while milk sometimes makes it gritty and unpredictable. Don’t run. It’s going to be okay. We’re going to get through this together and we get to have homemade macaroni and cheese when we’re done.
You’ll need 12 ounces of pasta (I love Cavatappi, but elbows would work; look for slightly larger, “meatier” elbows like Barilla if you decide to use elbows),

medium or sharp cheddar, fontina, and Parmesan (optional; it adds some dimension to the flavor of the mac & cheese, but it is a little strong and it’s gritty texture may impact the overall texture of the finished dish.) Whatever you use, be sure the cheese is freshly grated.

Pre-grated cheese is coated in a powder to prevent the shreds from sticking to each other and does not always melt very well.
Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. When it’s boiling, add the pasta and cook al dente. When it’s almost done cooking, carefully ladle 1 cup of the pasta water into a heat-safe bowl, mug, or measuring cup and set aside.
Drain the cooked pasta,

return pan to stove, and turn heat to low. Place the butter in the pan and melt, then add the onion and cook for 30 seconds to 1 minute. Add the pasta and stir to coat the pasta with the butter. Drop the cream cheese into the pot and stir until it starts to melt, then add the cheeses and stir until the cheese is melted. Drizzle the pasta water, a little at a time, until a desired consistency is reached (you may not use all the pasta water). Season with salt and pepper and serve immediately (with additional shredded cheese on top if desired.) Serve as a main dish with a big green salad on the side or as a side dish to grilled chicken, pork, or rotisserie chicken f0r a quick weeknight dinner.


Stovetop Macaroni and Cheese
Ingredients
- 12 ounces bite-sized pasta I like Cavatappi, but elbows will work
- 6 ounces medium or sharp cheddar freshly grated*
- 2 ounces fontina cheese freshly grated*
- 1 ounce Parmesan cheese freshly grated (optional; see note)
- 1/2 teaspoon grated onion
- salt and pepper to taste
- Up to 1 cup reserved pasta water
- 4 ounces cream cheese
- 2 tablespoons butter
Instructions
- Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. When it's boiling, add the pasta and cook al dente. When it's almost done cooking, carefully ladle 1 cup of the pasta water into a heat-safe bowl, mug, or measuring cup and set aside.
- Drain the cooked pasta, return pan to stove, and turn heat to low. Place the butter in the pan and melt. Add the onion and cook for 30 seconds to 1 minute. Add the pasta and stir to coat the pasta with the butter. Add the cheeses (including the cream cheese) and stir until the cheese is melted. Add the pasta water, a little at a time, until a desired consistency is reached (you may not use all the pasta water). Season with salt and pepper and serve immediately (with additional shredded cheese on top if desired.) Serve as a main dish with a big green salad on the side or as a side dish (alongside rotisserie chicken makes a quick weeknight meal!)








Questions & Reviews
Um, Kalen was the funniest two minutes of TV I have seen in a long time, so thank you for that :). (And BTW Kate, I love your writing style. It always makes me smile.)
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This stuff is seriously amazing! Used whole wheat noodles to make it clean eating and added just a dash of garlic powder (4yo LOVES garlic). My family devoured it! Even hubby who doesn’t like noodles. Thank you, thank you, thank you for helping me find a way to get the 4yo away from the blue box (that he wants for every meal)!! In his words, “This is am-boy good. Delicious!”
This is SOOOO good! I think I’ve made it four times over the past 6 weeks! Another great 5 star recipe – thank you!
P.S. The Kalen video is hilarious. Thanks for the laugh!
I made this last night for my family and we all loved it! It’s so creamy and the flavors are perfect. Thanks, Kate!
I made this for my husband and I a few nights ago. I was excited to try something new. I was pleased how it came together overall, but the onion flavor was very overpowering for both of us. I couldn’t taste the cheese, just onion. Maybe I should have let it cook longer, but it was in there at least a minute or more. We would both like to try it again though, without the onion.
Just made this tonight, with your stovetop mac n cheese recipe. Added a bag of seeds of change brown rice too! I’d post a picture if I could. It’s all so amazing
I LOVED this! My husband thought there was a strong almost bitter taste ?♀️ Any ideas on what cheese that might be coming from so I can tone it down for him in the future?
What kinds of cheese did you use?
I personally love the cheese onion combo and add onion powder to Mac and cheese always, also to grilled cheese. Haters gonna hate but I think it’s great! Thanks for the many great recipes! Whenever I have a recipe someone loves it’s one of yours!!
I haveneen told by my kids to NEVER put onions in mac and cheese. I agree snd i make great stovetop mac and cheese
I get leaving it out, but it’s also just a tiny enough amount to help enhance the other flavors. 🙂